Add someone you like.
Verify your own email or phone, then privately add your crush’s email address or mobile number.
FOR THE FEELINGS YOU HAVEN’T SHARED
Maybe the person on your mind is thinking of you, too. Privately add their email or mobile number. Crushlist will tell them someone likes them, without naming you. Only if they independently add you too will we reveal your identities to each other.
See how it works ↗Coming soon. You can’t add crushes or send invitations yet.
You add Alex.
Alex gets an invitation, without your name.Alex adds you too.
Alex chooses you without seeing your list.Only then does Crushlist tell you both who likes you.
PRIVATE LISTS. MUTUAL CHOICES.
Verify your own email or phone, then privately add your crush’s email address or mobile number.
We tell them someone likes them, without revealing you. They can join, verify their contact details, and add the people they like. They cannot see your list.
If you’re on each other’s lists, we tell both of you. Otherwise, your identity stays private. No match doesn’t necessarily mean rejection—they may not have joined yet.
Why Crushlist exists
Crushlist began in 2012 with a simple hope: fewer missed connections between people who like each other but never say it. The anticipation, the uncertainty, the friendship you treasure—we want to treat those feelings with care.
Give a quiet feeling a chance to become a conversation. Your identity stays hidden unless you both choose each other.
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