FOR THE FEELINGS YOU HAVEN’T SHARED
Maybe the person on your mind is thinking of you, too. Add their email to your crush list. Crushlist will tell them someone likes them, without naming you. Only if they independently add you too will we reveal your identities to each other.
Start your private list ↗See how it works ↗Start with your email. Invitations are sent once, without revealing who added you.
You add Alex.
Alex gets an invitation, without your name.Alex adds you too.
Alex chooses you without seeing your list.Only then does Crushlist tell you both who likes you.
YOUR CRUSH. MAYBE MUTUAL.
Verify your email, then add your crush’s email address to your crush list. Only you can see your list.
We tell them someone likes them, without revealing you. They can join, verify their email, and add the people they like. They cannot see your list.
If you’re on each other’s lists, we tell both of you. Otherwise, your identity stays private. No match doesn’t necessarily mean rejection—they may not have joined yet.
Why Crushlist exists
Crushlist began in 2012 with a simple hope: fewer missed connections between people who like each other but never say it. The anticipation, the uncertainty, the friendship you treasure—we want to treat those feelings with care.
Give a quiet feeling a chance to become a conversation. Your identity stays hidden unless you both choose each other.
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